convexer's dumpster site

This is my garbage site. It's supposed to be garbage, which I'm told is liberating. You aren't supposed to like it, or me.

I created this site because I wanted a site where I could talk about personal shit, particularly gender politics, regular politics, and my assorted gender issues. Goal is to write more freely/stream of consciousness instead of trying to edit myself and play it safe. There will be some questionable punctuation and design decisions.

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"If I have peed farther, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants."

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: Not clicking that

Yesterday two copies of an episode called “Why Dating Sucks for Men” of the Vox podcast Explain It to Me dropped in my podcast feed. Two copies because they also put it in the weekend feed for Today, Explained, which is their daily news podcast.

I’m not clicking that.

That topic is a known infohazard for me. Listening would only make me stressed out and resentful over a problem I don’t even have because I’m not single. But I have experienced enough frustration over the topic in life to know all the arguments and refutations and counter-refutations: there’s no value to me in listening. And yet, that clickbait title …

I will prevail.