convexer’s dumpster site

Hi, my name is not convexer and this is my garbage site. I created this site because I wanted a place where I could be my full & terrible self without worrying too hard about making a positive impression.

Topics of interest include personal shit, gender politics, regular politics, and the modern workplace. I don’t really proofread my posts, so let me know if I say anything that’s just wrong.

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“If I have peed farther, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.”

: Not clicking that

Yesterday two copies of an episode called “Why Dating Sucks for Men” of the Vox podcast Explain It to Me dropped in my podcast feed. Two copies because they also put it in the weekend feed for Today, Explained, which is their daily news podcast.

I’m not clicking that.

That topic is a known infohazard for me. Listening would only make me stressed out and resentful over a problem I don’t even have because I’m not single. But I have experienced enough frustration over the topic in life to know all the arguments and refutations and counter-refutations: there’s no value to me in listening. And yet, that clickbait title …

I will prevail.